While love is a terrifying thing it is also a magical and wonderful experience. That being said, it comes with far more risks than most people realize.
When you find real love you have to remove any fear and allow yourself to dive in all the while risking things like being hurt, ending up alone, and in a lot of ways losing yourself once all is said and done. Love is never easy and it can be very frustrating.
If you’re questioning things then you’re not alone, even though we love our partners we are also human, and we’ve been through disappointment to the point where we never truly feel as secure as we would like to. Being in love is putting all of that aside and moving forward anyway and it can go in a lot of different directions.
If you’re not willing to let go of the baggage you’ve been carrying love will never truly be able to work for you and that is something a lot of people fail to realize. You can care for someone with all your being, but if you refuse to give them a proper chance things will never work. You have to be there for this person through the rough times and stick by their side even in the worst moments which some people just aren’t capable of.
Real love is a lot more intense that false love and while both begin in similar ways, the means at which they play out defines the future drastically. If you truly love someone you have to be willing to accept all of them and not want to change who they are. You have to risk your sense of security and take the leap to figure out whether things are going to last or not.
Love is not going to make you happy and it isn’t going to make all of the problems in your life fade away but it will help you to find happiness within yourself and allow you the chance to work through those problems with someone who cares by your side and I think we all need to come to terms with this. You are offered something truly life-changing and taking the risks are well worth it regardless of how things end up playing out because of the experiences your heart gains through this. If you live life refusing to let other people in, you’ll die alone and suffer through a lot in the process.
Love is one of the most amazing things this life has to offer us and I believe that is why so many of us chase it drastically. Rejection and pain is all worth it in the end when you finally come face to face with the person who is going to spend the rest of their years by your side. Sure, you might have to weed through some toxic people but in the end, everything works out on a positive note and leaves you feeling much more complete.