When it comes to marriage we don’t want to be marrying just anyone. We want the person we marry to be the person we’re going to spend the rest of our lives with, right?
While not all marriages work out in that manner or end up being happily ever afters there are some things we can look out for that might indicate we’ve married or are going to marry someone well worth our time. Below I am going to go over some of those things and break them down a bit, how many are present in your relationship right now?
When you are down and out your partner is always there to pick you back up. You’re able to rely on your lover when you really need them the most. They never let you down or leave you hanging in this regard.
2. Your partner is always making the best out of the worst situations.
Your partner makes the worst moments better. They’re always able to lighten the mood and bring out the best in you. When you’re stressed they help bring you back where you need to be.
3. You are happy in the relationship.
If you’re happy in the relationship you’re in then you’re with the right person. Being happy is important. You don’t want to be stuck with someone who makes you miserable.
4. You can talk to one another about anything.
You can talk to one another about literally everything. You’re able to get along with one another on a level most people don’t understand. When you sit down and discuss things, you do-so deeply.
You and your partner trust one another. There is no wondering what’s really going on or questioning if the other is lying. Trust is important when it comes to relationships and marriage.
6. You both enjoy spending time with one another.
When you’re able to be with someone you like spending time with who also likes spending time with you, you’ve found something real. As a married couple, you’re going to spend a lot of time together. If you didn’t like being around one another there would be no point in pursuing marriage, right?
7. Your partner always knows how to cheer you up.
When you’re sad your partner knows what to do to help make you feel better. They’re always willing to go the extra mile to make you smile. This is something not everyone finds.
8. Your partner is your number one fan.
When you’re feeling like giving up your partner is there to cheer you on. Your lover want to see you follow your dreams and achieve your goals. You’re always being pushed to do what you want in life.
9. Your partner works hard to make sure you both have what you need.
Your partner works hard and while you do as well everyone is being cared for properly. Your partner won’t let you go without and vice versa is true. Everyone has what they need, period.
10. No matter how long you’ve been together you’re still complimenting one another.
When you and your partner are able to still complement one another after being together for a long time you know you’ve got something real. This can be quite telling of your connection. You are both on the same page.
11. Your partner treats the people who matter to you well.
If your partner is nice to the people who matter the most to you be it friends or even family that is a good sign. While they might not like one another the fact that they can get along is important. Your partner should always be willing to do at least this much for you.
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